Applying to College: Ways to Ease the Stress

Applying to college can be exciting but also a bit stressful. As a parent, there are some simple ways you can help your child feel ready for this big step.

1. Let Them Take the Lead but Be There to Help: Applying to college is an important part of growing up. Help your child stay organized by making a list of deadlines but let them take charge. If they forget a deadline, it’s okay. That’s how we learn. Be there to support them but try not to remind them too much.
2. Do Your Research: College applications change all the time, so it’s good to learn what’s new. Check out the application process works and how financial aid works. It will help you answer any questions your child might have. Many schools also offer information sessions to help guide students and parents through the process.
3. Talk About Money Early: It’s important to talk openly about what your family can afford when it comes to college. If you talk about this early, your child will have a clearer idea of which colleges might be the best choice. Also, look into financial aid options to see if your child can get help paying for college.
4. Visit College Campuses: Taking trips to different colleges is a great way for your child to picture themselves there and see if it feels right. It might take some planning, but these visits can help them feel more comfortable about their decision.
5. Let Them Choose: It can be tempting to want your child to go to the same college you did or study something specific. But they’ll feel more confident if they get to make their own choice. Even if they change their major later, learning to make big decisions is an important skill.

Frequently Asked Questions About College Applications

If this is your first time helping with college applications, don’t worry. Here are answers to some of the most asked questions:

• When should my student start applying? Most students start applying to colleges at the beginning of their senior year. Many colleges have deadlines around January. Encourage them to make note of each school’s specific deadlines to avoid last-minute stress.
• Where can I find more information? There are lots of places to find more information including the internet, school guidance counselors, college admissions offices, teachers, and tutors. • How can school counselors help? They can help answer questions about college choices, application requirements, improving grades, and recommendation letters.
• Should we start preparing during junior year? Starting in junior year is a great idea. It’s a good time to start campus tours, research schools, and get organized. A head start can make your child’s senior year less stressful.

Applying to college is a big step, but with a little preparation, you can help make it a great experience!